We had a short lived fling, but we had such a strong connection and still do. That was 4.5 years ago. He's married but said 4 years ago he's not happy but doesn't want to hurt his kids and staying because of them, which I don't agree with but that's a different story. His youngest has 2 more yrs until graduating high school. I haven't seen him in over a year and since that first fling, we never had sex again, so he's not coming back for that. He calls just to talk, or he will stop by, but that's been a long time ago. He still keeps in contact by phone or text message just to check in and see how I've been. Why does someone married still remain in contact even though there has been no sexual relationship in over 4 years? Most men I know would get tired of trying if that's all they were after. Please help...
Thanks for the honest answers. I did make a BIG mistake at that time. I was recently divorced and was loving the attention but felt guilty at the same time and cut it off. He said he couldn't leave because he couldn't afford it since she made more than he did, but that should be no excuse. I agree, I need to cease contact totally. I've been dodging him in person, but he still calls and I allow it.
Thanks for the honest answers. I did make a BIG mistake at that time. I was recently divorced and was loving the attention but felt guilty at the same time and cut it off. He said he couldn't leave because he couldn't afford it since she made more than he did, but that should be no excuse. I agree, I need to cease contact totally. I've been dodging him in person, but he still calls and I allow it.