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Kristoff
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Me and my Girlfriend are both young(18, 17), And yes we're in a state where having sex with eachother is legal.
Anyway, we didn't have sex with eachother until we were going out about two months. Afterwards we had sex 3 times a day for several weeks. It was pretty exhausting but at the same time it was awesome. It slowed down to a more reasonable pace of once a day, give or take a few days if she was feeling sore or not in the mood, which was fine.
Just recently, we hit our 5 month mark and now sex has slowed to a crawl. We only do it once a week if at all. I feel this sort of started a couple weeks back when she was diagnosed with Chlamydia which she gave to me from one of her previous partners. Obviously we couldn't have sex for a week until we were both cured but I also felt a little weird around her as her past tends to haunt me often and having a physical illness because of it doesn't tend to help me get over it.
Well eventually I got over it and we had very passionate sex, and then it kind of went downhill from there.
Anyway I tried to spark some interest in sex the other day by buying ribbed condoms which she has always expressed interest in and then buying some flavored lube, just to try things out. She seemed excited and promised we'd have sex yesterday.
She's promised to have sex with me a lot lately, but it's always fallen through because she's too tired from waiting to get me off of work or she's not in the mood. Which I thought was fine because I don't think she should have to promise to have sex with me in the first place. So we went to a movie and watched T.V. until right before bed when she asked if I was sexually frustrated because we don't have sex as much anymore and I told her "A little, but I you're more than just sex to me."
She said "I don't want you to get mad at me for not having sex" and I said "I would never get mad at you for that" and that "only jackasses get mad at girls for not having sex with them" Which is true, but I think I played off my frustration a little less than what it is.
Why do you think she won't have sex with me anymore?
E: You're an idiot. She's not cheating on me. She's had Chlamydia the whole time we were dating, we only just now found out about it when she was getting tested to be put on Birth Control.
Gra8tful: Why is it fishy? It's not like I screened her for STDs when we first started dating like everyone is assuming.
You guys are dull.
Anyway, we didn't have sex with eachother until we were going out about two months. Afterwards we had sex 3 times a day for several weeks. It was pretty exhausting but at the same time it was awesome. It slowed down to a more reasonable pace of once a day, give or take a few days if she was feeling sore or not in the mood, which was fine.
Just recently, we hit our 5 month mark and now sex has slowed to a crawl. We only do it once a week if at all. I feel this sort of started a couple weeks back when she was diagnosed with Chlamydia which she gave to me from one of her previous partners. Obviously we couldn't have sex for a week until we were both cured but I also felt a little weird around her as her past tends to haunt me often and having a physical illness because of it doesn't tend to help me get over it.
Well eventually I got over it and we had very passionate sex, and then it kind of went downhill from there.
Anyway I tried to spark some interest in sex the other day by buying ribbed condoms which she has always expressed interest in and then buying some flavored lube, just to try things out. She seemed excited and promised we'd have sex yesterday.
She's promised to have sex with me a lot lately, but it's always fallen through because she's too tired from waiting to get me off of work or she's not in the mood. Which I thought was fine because I don't think she should have to promise to have sex with me in the first place. So we went to a movie and watched T.V. until right before bed when she asked if I was sexually frustrated because we don't have sex as much anymore and I told her "A little, but I you're more than just sex to me."
She said "I don't want you to get mad at me for not having sex" and I said "I would never get mad at you for that" and that "only jackasses get mad at girls for not having sex with them" Which is true, but I think I played off my frustration a little less than what it is.
Why do you think she won't have sex with me anymore?
E: You're an idiot. She's not cheating on me. She's had Chlamydia the whole time we were dating, we only just now found out about it when she was getting tested to be put on Birth Control.
Gra8tful: Why is it fishy? It's not like I screened her for STDs when we first started dating like everyone is assuming.
You guys are dull.