we both cheated and we separated for 6mths,we are together again but we are

leave him and start your life over so you don't have to go through it again
cause its not healthy to do that its just sick and you both need therapy
to solve your problems and work them out in couples counseling and if it dosen't work leave and find another.
 
Did you fix the problems in your marriage?

No.

You both cheated, did you figure out WHY you both cheated?

No.

What did the separation solve?

nothing.

You got back together again, but what changed that made you think it would work this time?

nothing. thats why your arguing again... because you still haven't learned how to communicate.
 
Sounds as if there has been a great deal of trust broken here and prob. will not work out. The seperation leaves more trouble because there are thoughts in both minds as to what went on then. Marriage is based on trust-if you cannot find a way to rebuild it forget it. If you both cheated sounds like something was missing from the beggining and you were not taking your vows seriously. If you remain together you have alot of work ahead!
 
If you both can not look at the bright side and over look the others down side. Just say something nice to each other every day and help them do a few little things then it is over. It takes 2 to work these things out.

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