we argued and he left?

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Alibi

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im so annoyed - my boyfriend has been in a bad mood all day really. it was his sons birthday today and i was a bit annoyed with my bf because he gave his son some money and i thought it was going to be a joint thing (as we are a couple) and we usually do it together. he didnt even tell me what he had given him. also i gave his son a card with some money from my son and he didnt even say thaks. anyway - i said to my bf it would of been nice if we had done it together - and he just got shitty with me. all night he was shitty and kept shouting at me - i asked him to stop a few times and he didnt. my son heard us and was upset so i said if you cant stop then leave - so he did. he then ignored my phone calls and eventually i got him and he said he is staying out tonight and will come back later so we dont argue. i feel bad i questioned him about the birthday present but i dont think its right he should talk to me the way he does or that he has gone out for the night - he hates me going out with out him. what do i do
 
you have to think about your son hearing these kind of things isn't good tell him you will not be spoken to like that and the next time he speaks to you like that he can take his stuff when he is leaving.All the best.
 
What a drama about something so unimportant. So the guy gave his son some money but you wanted to be there when he gave it to him. So what? It's a minor irritation. You made a big deal of it, he got annoyed, so you told him to shut up or leave. So he left! You told him to! Then you kept phoning him, which is really annoying.
You were both wrong to argue in front of your son. You were both wrong to let a minor thing escalate into a major argument. But why do you need to "question him" about the birthday present? It's done, the money has been given - you can't change that. To be honest, you both sound picky and argumentative.
 
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