we are newlyweds and having sex only once a week - if i beg long enough!?

[jlv]

my husband and i have been married for four months. during our first month we can't get enough of each other and he usually initiates it. it was fun and exciting. during the first month, my husband didn't have a job but that didn't seem to diminish his sexual energy. now, he has been working for 3 months and we are having sex less and less frequently and usually i have to ask for it incessantly for days! i would have to ask for it daily and even keep commenting on it before he gives in! he would always say "later" but it ends up with me being left high and dry. i know that he satisfies himself by watching porn, which we also sometimes watch together. but recently he has been prefering porn to me. one time he was watching porn when i walked in and i suggested that we just have sex. he said "later" and that he hasn't watched porn for some time, but guess what we didn't have sex "later"! (he watched porn only a day before that and we had sex 3 days prior!) i even tried lying naked next to him and he would say that i am making him hot but he would just continue on watching the tv! i am a housewife and i wait on him hand and foot. he comes home, eats dinner, watches and tv and asks me to massage him and if i initiate sex he would say "later" because he wants to rest first! what gives?! if a man wants sex, he wants it! period! i have already told him that not having sex with him and me constantly asking for it makes me feel very unattrative, he would say that is not true. he would also tell me provocative stuff when we are outside the house - like wanting to rip my clothes off then and there, but there is no follow through when we get home! help! i am getting depressed!

p.s. he satisfied himself again this morning with porn before he went to work and we had sex 4 days ago!
p.p.s leaving him is not an option. he is a good husband. i just feel very lonely, and sad thinking that he is not attractive to me this early in our marriage