K Kate New member Jul 9, 2009 #2 My friend is gay and she really doesn't care and says it to other people as well.
R Ris Tourterelle New member Jul 9, 2009 #3 I'm slightly offended, yes. You're using "gay" as a synonym for "stupid," which implies the entire gay community is stupid. You could just as easily say "stupid" instead.
I'm slightly offended, yes. You're using "gay" as a synonym for "stupid," which implies the entire gay community is stupid. You could just as easily say "stupid" instead.
E E_Tard New member Jul 9, 2009 #4 When you say it in a derogatory manner, you are using it as an insult. Yes, it is offensive in that usage.
When you say it in a derogatory manner, you are using it as an insult. Yes, it is offensive in that usage.
C cheznight New member Jul 9, 2009 #5 Well kinda, I usually brush it off. But seriously, consider all the other complex and simple words people could have used instead of gay.
Well kinda, I usually brush it off. But seriously, consider all the other complex and simple words people could have used instead of gay.
J joe o New member Jul 9, 2009 #6 Does it offend you if I hate something dumb and I say 'That's so Bevi'?