Was this sex talk over the line?

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My girlfriend and I have been dating since we were 13. We're both 20 now and live together.

I remember 5 months into the relationship her mother gave us a sex talk. She made it clear what she doesn't want happening. Her mom said if we really needed to, we could masturbate each other.

I thought the talk was graphic, but my girlfriend and her mom always had an open relationship when it came to sex talk. But even my girlfriend admitted to feeling awkward when her mom talked to us.

Was the sex talk over the line? She was giving sex education to another parent's kid.

Oh ... sadly, we didn't do anything later that day. We didn't do anything more than light kissing for about an entire year.
 
Maybe you were not mature enough to handle the conversation back then. And she didn't care if she was giving another woman's child a sex lesson she was trying to protect her daughter from getting pregnant.
 
Sadly, we didn't do anything that day---- what?
Why are you still thinking about an incident that happened 7 years ago.
Something tells me you aren't 20.
 
You remembered it, it was effective and therefore it achieved its aim. If only more parents talked as frankly to their own and, if necessary other people's children.
 
Hey, she wanted you and your girlfriend to know what the boundaries were and she gave them to you. She didn't want you two having sex or going over the line and she accomplished her mission if you two only kissed each other for a whole year.
I wouldn't have done it. I would talk to my daughter or son first, not their boyfriends or girlfriends. And if the girlfriend or boyfriend had inaccurate information (like that drinking a spoonful of bleach will prevent HIV or that if you haven't had your period yet you can't get pregnant) I would talk to them about it.
 
Sex talk was not over the line. Your girl friend's mom was ok. She just concerned you both about sex and taught you to control bad situation by doing masturbation.
 
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