Wants help on how I can extricate myself from boss.?

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Phillo

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I work in a busy company in a city. My boss is unmarried and very attractive lady of 42 years while I'm a married man aged 37. Last year we had a Company annual party that went late into the night. When the party was over, she requested me to drive her in her vehicle to her apartment leaving my car at the company yard. Once at her apartment, she offered me room to spend since I could not get either a bus or a taxi back. But my room door had no key. After a while she left the wash room and came to my room and she was all over me. I could not resist her and we made love repeated. My biggest worry now is that several months down the line and I'm unable get away from her. Apart from loving me, this lady seems to have completely colonized my mind. I can't say no to anything she wants and worse still, she takes me out anywhere anytime. Please be frank and advise me.
 
Your choices are simple.
1. Find a new job. Complications: the references system will mean the boss-lady will find out about your leaving, likely causing some appreciable discomfort.
2. Get fired, and thusly be forced to leave. This will be easy with some imagination.
3.Be a complete piece of shit to your boss. Complications: This might cause you get fired, and your wife will find out.
4. Move to Latin America. I did it. It works. It gives you perspective on life, love, and the value of good coffee.


Further considerations. This will never be a problem fo me, I have an open relationship (Look into that). There is a chance that your boss is pretty cool person. Have you tried talking to her? Since you will probably have to quit or be fired soon way (because deception and lying in love and other serious relationships doesn't work) you might as well try to arrange something. Maybe you can down-scale the relationship and eventually find a new job. Get used to missing this woman. Sounds like the is pretty cool and easy on your wallet.

Good luck!
 
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