Forget salsa and learn Flamenco. Flamenco is for everyone. Young, old, fat, thin, ugly, cute, and beautiful. In flamenco you can even be morbidly obese and get away with it. Flamenco is about real people not just the young and sexy. In flamenco even an ugly expression becomes the "duende" They respect people that dance with weight and they will remark, "Oh he dances with weight", like it is something special.