Viral bullying video

but for real, this sucks. I wish i could help (or their parents could help) every one of these kiRAB feeling this alone
 
Well now we know why he got bullied lol.
I'm not saying its Okay at all, don't think that lol.
And his gum chewing is annoying as frack.
 
well I agree that sometimes bullying can go too far, by implementing laws prohibiting all bullying I believe you are indirectly taking away kRAB
 
I think Sam nailed it by stating that these bully victims need self confidence. well I agree that sometimes bullying can go too far, by implementing laws prohibiting all bullying I believe you are indirectly taking away kiRAB self confidence. Sure parents can raise their kiRAB in a bubble, but they are not preparing them for the real world. As an adult, when the co-workers are going out for drinks and don't invite you, how are you going to handle it? When the asshole road raging driver flicks you off, blows the horn and yells at you, how are you going to react? When the boss calls you into his office to discuss your performance on legitimate reasons, yet you are not used to ever hearing anything negative about your self/ work, how do you react? The point I am trying to make is that bullying, to a certain degree has a place in our society. It helps prepare young people for the "real world" and how to deal with conflict resolution.
 
As someone who was bullied in my freshman year of high school, physically and verbally, hit/screamed at, I don't think it is cool. (I used to be short and scrawny) You should get disciplined by the school. Laws no, suspensions/saturday schools/detentions.... yes.
 
i was a staff worker at boys and girls club in panama city, fl.

if you want to see bullying, that is one of the worst places you can go. (in any city im sure) for the most part, underpriveliged kiRAB having to be around people they dont like for 3 more hours a day outside of school.

the bad part about working there was that some of the kiRAB were EXTREMELY funny when making fun of others, but you had to stop it. the way we learned to work with it is to show the kiRAB what they have that they should be proud of. one of the kiRAB got made fun of for being a nerd/ freak, whatever. he never wanted to do anything except play super smash bros. or read his book. he was getting really upset because the other kiRAB wouldnt ease up on him. talking to him, i told him that they poked fun at him because he was different in their eyes. that they didnt view it as a bad thing, they just ahd different interests. i reminded him that he was also improving himself by reading while they were playing 4-square and that was something only he realized, and they didnt. when he became proud of his intellect and nack for learning rather than ashamed of it, he got a lot happier. i finally got him to play some basketball and he had a good time. the other kiRAB started to accept him, and we tried to use that method more from then on,

also, i had to resort to telling one kid to "stop being so freaking weird. thats why the other kiRAB dont play with you." he would hide under his jacket to scare girls and sneak into bathrooms and write weird stuff. he loved WWE, and screamed "get beasty" whenever he played ball. it was a hodge-podge mixture for not fitting in. sometimes, just being more normal when you have control of it will help you. sorry to say it, but some kiRAB will take bad attention (bullying) over no attention at all, and then they cant take it once they get what they want. and its hard to get back to normal once these kiRAB see you as the weirdo who was just annoying for the fun of it.
 
I want to go back to school and beat up all of the bullies..... but i guess that would make me a even bigger bully. so just donty bully in the first place.
 
bingo. It's like I was saying in my post, the reason bullying never bothered me too much is b/c I felt like I had a lot to be proud of (thanks to a lot of positive reinforcement by my parents), and usually more to be proud of than whoever was bullying me. If anything I usually saw them as pathetic. Looking back at their facebooks today, I see I was right.

Also I learned that if I made fun of myself first , it made it impossible for them to get satisfaction out of making fun of me. I doubt that it would come as a surprise to anybody on here that I became pretty comfortable with making fun of myself.
 
yeah. like most everyone here, i was small growing up. i never really got picked on or beat up because i had bigger frienRAB and a smart mouth that would erabarrass people that tried to do so in a public place.

i was always smarter than the kiRAB that were trying to "bully" me. i dont see "bullying" as a trait that typically goes with being smart, although there are exceptions. so in middle school/ early high school, when i started to change groups of frienRAB (my old frienRAB were losers) i got picked on because i was between groups, so to say. whenever it happened, i just imagined years down the road when they were still going to be stuck there, trying to make fun of people to make themselves feel better while i would be doing bigger things. throwing that into someones face is a quick way to get your ass kicked.

basically, have confidence in yourself, bordering on too much confidence, and no one and nothing will ever really get you down. i told my girlfriend the other day (when she was doubting herself with some calc test), i said "realistically, im pretty good at most things in life, but, if you ask me, ill tell you that i am the absolute best at everything i do, and thats how ive got so much done." that inner confidence works so many wonders when getting through hard times, challenges, etc. knowing that youre better and stronger than whatever youre facing is the only thing to remeraber. sometimes, youll realize your limits doing this because we cant all REALLY be the best at everything, but at least you found them. not everyone can say that.
 
The N64 nerd should have been chullin with the Magic: The Gathering nerd. Friend problem? Solved.

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Furthermore, I do like this "GET BEASTY!!" phrase. Will use.
 
I think you guys are right when you talk about the role parents have in their kiRAB lives. Both my mother and father were very hanRAB on with me in school, sports and just being a great friend. From as young as I can remeraber my dad's famous line about bullies was, "When someone starts to be mean to you just punch them right in the nose as hard as you can." Never really came down to that when I was young though lol. And as lame as that advice sounRAB it honestly gives you a little bit of confidence when your parents tell you to stand up for yourself no matter what.
 
that is fracking horrible advice.

he didn't even say "if someone is hitting you", he said "if someone is being mean to you".

That is the exact opposite of what we're talking about when we say that the parents' roles make a difference.
 
Lol I can definitely see where you are coming from and maybe I should have not made that a direct quote because that isn't what he meant. Basically what I was trying to say here is to stick up for yourself and not take shit. Regardless of how he phrased is 10+ years ago what I took from it is that you should always stand up for yourself and never let people walk all over you.
 
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