So, speaking of the extended editions, I liked how Arwen reacted to Aragorn trying to break up with her, the whole "It was just a dream" thing. She was so confused at first, but once she realized what he was doing, she simply refused to back down, firmly telling him that he should keep the evenstar. Arwen made it very clear that no matter what Aragorn said, no matter that he thought he was doing the right thing by getting her to leave Middle Earth, she was going to keep on loving him. As she said in the first movie, her heart (like the evenstar necklace) was hers to give as she chose.