Hi,
This is really awkward but I'd really like some answers here.
I'm a pretty small girl, and was a virgin before I slept with the guy I'm with now. He's pretty big and every time we have sex, it's not enjoyable for me at all. It's just painful. And most of it is during penetration/around the opening where I'm pretty sure it's getting ripped each time.
We've only slept together four times so I was wondering if maybe that's a reason why it's still hurting. But other than that I don't know how to prevent pain, I don't know how much foreplay is enough, etc. I don't generally feel nervous before either, so I don't know. Can anyone help me out?
Sorry if it's too much info... I just want some answers because I don't know how I could handle it being like that every time.
This is really awkward but I'd really like some answers here.
I'm a pretty small girl, and was a virgin before I slept with the guy I'm with now. He's pretty big and every time we have sex, it's not enjoyable for me at all. It's just painful. And most of it is during penetration/around the opening where I'm pretty sure it's getting ripped each time.
We've only slept together four times so I was wondering if maybe that's a reason why it's still hurting. But other than that I don't know how to prevent pain, I don't know how much foreplay is enough, etc. I don't generally feel nervous before either, so I don't know. Can anyone help me out?
Sorry if it's too much info... I just want some answers because I don't know how I could handle it being like that every time.