Unprotected sex not sure if he came ? Yes i know its bad?

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I had unprotected sex with my bf we didnt use anything and i dont know if he ejaculated or not i did feel a warm wet rush but nothing came back out that i know of i cant really remember which is bad but im to embarresed to ask him .The fact he is Bi polar and going through an episode right now isnt helping . We were doing it doggy style and i felt this strong pulse and wetness i dont know if it was me and im scared to ask him in case he goes off on one .Help please
My last period was jan 9th we had sex 5 days ago.
We are old enough to know better but mentally hes like child and i dont think he would take it well if i asked him.
Im scared because of his emotional state and never asked me if i was on pill or anythig which im not.
I let him take the lead i think if i turn around now and say you do realise im not on the pill he will end up flipping out
 
Assuming you are over 18 I suggest getting the morning after pill to be on he safe side.

Dont rly on what he says.
 
WHY DIDN"T YOU USE plan B?
> If he's like a child mentally, well.... well.... thats wrong to have that sort of relationship with him, at least while he's like that.
 
Go for a pregnancy test to put your mind at rest. Fellas can leak a bit even if they don't fully ejaculate. Women can also ejaculate so it could have been you. I know this is easier for me to say than for you to do, try not to worry about it.
If you are concerned that he is sometimes not in a place to make choices for himself, you could go on the pill for your own sake
 
Go for a pregnancy test to put your mind at rest. Fellas can leak a bit even if they don't fully ejaculate. Women can also ejaculate so it could have been you. I know this is easier for me to say than for you to do, try not to worry about it.
If you are concerned that he is sometimes not in a place to make choices for himself, you could go on the pill for your own sake
 
Er tbh, it sounds like he did.
Wouldnt take my word for it though, although you should know that the guy doesnt actually have to come for you to get pregnant, there could have been the smallest amount, and you could still get pregnant.

I think, either way, whether he came or not, there is the risk you could be pregnant - sorry to put it so bluntly - as you used no condom etc. And despite using that, it's only 98% effective anyway.

Good luck, and i hope everything works out for how you want.
 
Why would you be scared to ask him if he came inside you. Dont be silly and just ask him!!!
 
Only you know the answer, warm and wet bingo! your boyfriend rebounded of the basket and earned the team 3 points. If it was warm wet and gushy what do you think it was? yes! he ejaculated inside you, he probably had a half empty sac after helping himself a few times. Do you feel sick? under the weather? a bit run down? Good! you've got the cold pregnancy sickness doesn't kick in until the next period is due.
 
Tut tut missy. But we all make mistakes and hopefully you will have learnt a very good lesson... ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!!

Dont ask him, irrespective of wether he came or not men pre-ejaculate slightly during sex so the risk is already there. Him telling you makes no difference!

Firstly, it is way tooo early to take a pregnancy test, it wouldnt show up by now. I would say wait it out. Cus to be honest that is all you can do. Your next period is due in just over a week right? wait to see if it comes. If it doesnt, take a test. But try not to stress over it, because stress alone can cause a period to be late.

Also take yourself to a sexual health clinic and get yourself checked out. Taking risks like that mean you have to go through the motions afterwards. To be on the safe side and to put ur mind at ease you need to have an STI test done.

I hope this helps, but be more careful next time hun....by the sound of it you dont want a baby so why take the risk?

good luck
 
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