said she wanted to marry you? Last summer, when my g/f came to visit me overseas, we decided to date exclusively with the intent on spending the rest of our lives together. She returned to the US, and not even 6 weeks later she was creeping and in the fall, a month before I return to the States she hooks up with a random guy she met at a bar. She would have never told me any of this, but I found out on my own through a mutual friend. We got into it, but I decided to try and forgive her. The odd thing is that we never covered why she did it. At any rate, fast forward to today, we have put that behind us and are planning to get married - for the most part, things are going fine. sure we get into arguments, but they are no different than any other couple trying to figure out how things might work in the future. however, from time to time I have my doubts. I am guessing only time will allow what she did to fade, and being as it was less than 6 months ago that is to be expected. To date she really hasn't done anything to pique my concern - but then I am not there, and won't be till later in the year when we spend 2 weeks together. I am just curious what others think and would do in my position.
Under what circumstances would you take a cheating girlfriend back who originally
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