My bf of 4 years and I had a fight, after that he did not contact me and neither did I him. The fight was huge and I had had enough, he was pushing me away and telling me to get out of his life all the time, last Friday I had enough.
He contacted on Monday...just after 2 days. And he gave 85 calls in the entire day, i did not pick up. He even contacted my friends and apologised for his behaviour and asked for a second chance saying that he will change and keep me happy, and make everything like before. 3 at night he called, i got so irritated I picked up, our discussion started with the reason of our fight, and he changed so fast! As soon as he heard from me that we can work things out, he said that he doesn't want to and that he was sorry that he even approached me!!!
I got really irritated and told him I wouldn't take it, and said let's just see if it works for us. He agreed. i went on a weekend trip with my family, and when I come back he says that he wants to break up and doesn't even start talking properly. And then when i called he did not pick up!!!
It's a game, and I want it to stop. And to some extent I want myself to win in this...because I have had about enough! i am not a yogi! I don't have infinite peace within me!
Please tell me how I should handle the situation???
He contacted on Monday...just after 2 days. And he gave 85 calls in the entire day, i did not pick up. He even contacted my friends and apologised for his behaviour and asked for a second chance saying that he will change and keep me happy, and make everything like before. 3 at night he called, i got so irritated I picked up, our discussion started with the reason of our fight, and he changed so fast! As soon as he heard from me that we can work things out, he said that he doesn't want to and that he was sorry that he even approached me!!!
I got really irritated and told him I wouldn't take it, and said let's just see if it works for us. He agreed. i went on a weekend trip with my family, and when I come back he says that he wants to break up and doesn't even start talking properly. And then when i called he did not pick up!!!
It's a game, and I want it to stop. And to some extent I want myself to win in this...because I have had about enough! i am not a yogi! I don't have infinite peace within me!
Please tell me how I should handle the situation???