ninja hamsters
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Ok- I don't know how much of a fool I have become!!!!
This guy I have been dating for a year and a half - I am 24 btw - Well, past 3 months have just been blah!! This is a LDR too ( Long distance - 600miles) It's like my mind tells me that I just want it to end, yet at the same time it wants to wait and see what till happen. I see clues in what he does and says to me that maybe he feels the same way. That we have run our time. The thing is - he won't admit it or talk about it really and I'm not ready for the " I think this needs to end" talk. More of the " where do you think we are right now" Well, all I can get out of him is " we are fine y? " and than no responses till subject gets changed an hour later because 100% communication via text messaging which sucks!! Anyway, I'm not sure if the signs I see in what he says are just my mind wanting to see them so that I don't hurt him? Does that make sense?
I want to think he loves me, and I want to think I love him but its as if neither person wants this but neither person wants to hurt the other person because we are both going through a lot. So my question is the one above.
Thanks!
This guy I have been dating for a year and a half - I am 24 btw - Well, past 3 months have just been blah!! This is a LDR too ( Long distance - 600miles) It's like my mind tells me that I just want it to end, yet at the same time it wants to wait and see what till happen. I see clues in what he does and says to me that maybe he feels the same way. That we have run our time. The thing is - he won't admit it or talk about it really and I'm not ready for the " I think this needs to end" talk. More of the " where do you think we are right now" Well, all I can get out of him is " we are fine y? " and than no responses till subject gets changed an hour later because 100% communication via text messaging which sucks!! Anyway, I'm not sure if the signs I see in what he says are just my mind wanting to see them so that I don't hurt him? Does that make sense?
I want to think he loves me, and I want to think I love him but its as if neither person wants this but neither person wants to hurt the other person because we are both going through a lot. So my question is the one above.
Thanks!