I haven't been able to feel safe enough to ask any person that I know in the flesh this, so here I am looking for support in the anonymous cyber world...
I'm 25 - I've been in a monogamous heterosexual relationship for over 6 years now, and we have two beautiful children together. I stayed at home with my kids and lived a pretty isolated life until I went back to school this September and NOW...
I'm finding myself with a crush on one of my female classmates. Its really messing with me! I wouldn't act on it but the fact that I'm feeling this way, when I'm in a relationship (not to mention the implications it brings in because she's not a man...) is really messing wiht my head. I plan to sit back and see if it goes away...but realistically, I wanted to ask the lesbians out there - - how often do straight girls get crushes on you/experiment with you/etc and go back to being straight? I just dont understand the blurred lines here....I've always thought about women "like that" a bit, but never had the opportunity before I got into a relatinoship to experiment...
Detail: my partner would most definitely NOT be okay with experimenting. We have a complete family together already and although we both have gay friends, cheating is cheating.
Beyond that.... I know for sure that the girl I have a crush on is a lesbian. I guess part of me is worried that that's the only reason I have a crush on her?
I'm 25 - I've been in a monogamous heterosexual relationship for over 6 years now, and we have two beautiful children together. I stayed at home with my kids and lived a pretty isolated life until I went back to school this September and NOW...
I'm finding myself with a crush on one of my female classmates. Its really messing with me! I wouldn't act on it but the fact that I'm feeling this way, when I'm in a relationship (not to mention the implications it brings in because she's not a man...) is really messing wiht my head. I plan to sit back and see if it goes away...but realistically, I wanted to ask the lesbians out there - - how often do straight girls get crushes on you/experiment with you/etc and go back to being straight? I just dont understand the blurred lines here....I've always thought about women "like that" a bit, but never had the opportunity before I got into a relatinoship to experiment...
Detail: my partner would most definitely NOT be okay with experimenting. We have a complete family together already and although we both have gay friends, cheating is cheating.
Beyond that.... I know for sure that the girl I have a crush on is a lesbian. I guess part of me is worried that that's the only reason I have a crush on her?