my question is, would you be angry at your inlaws if they missed your son's christening ceremony. the excuse was that grandpa had to work (except grandpa is a pensioner, and he works rarely to pass the time). so we went to church, everyone was there except grandma and grandpa..she phoned and said grandpa won't be home by time...i was angry but didn't want to spoil the christening, so i put it at the back of my mind...so did my hubby
i phoned up his mum and told her that they hurt our feelings by not being there, since they were present for husband's sister kids confirmation, holy communion etc.... she says that she never expected me to phone and say this!!!! they say that he didn't know he'd be late, but he went at 3pm...and the ceremony was at 6pm?
this is not the first time when i feel they're not respecting us enough, for example, a few months back i was pregnant with baby and felt tired. we were at their home and i told my hubby to leave because i was tired. she sent sms saying that i was rude because i spent little time there!! i was pregnant, had low blood pressure and needed to rest!!! is this respect?
what would you do in my situation? hubby is angry and won't speak to them
hubby doesn't want to talk about it with me either, he just tells me to change the subject if i bring it up...he's just angry because he says they never acted as parents and were never there when he needed them. he's hurt, but instead of calling him and explaining (?!), they turned onto me for phoning....hubby told me to phone by the way, and was present during the tel convs
i phoned up his mum and told her that they hurt our feelings by not being there, since they were present for husband's sister kids confirmation, holy communion etc.... she says that she never expected me to phone and say this!!!! they say that he didn't know he'd be late, but he went at 3pm...and the ceremony was at 6pm?
this is not the first time when i feel they're not respecting us enough, for example, a few months back i was pregnant with baby and felt tired. we were at their home and i told my hubby to leave because i was tired. she sent sms saying that i was rude because i spent little time there!! i was pregnant, had low blood pressure and needed to rest!!! is this respect?
what would you do in my situation? hubby is angry and won't speak to them
hubby doesn't want to talk about it with me either, he just tells me to change the subject if i bring it up...he's just angry because he says they never acted as parents and were never there when he needed them. he's hurt, but instead of calling him and explaining (?!), they turned onto me for phoning....hubby told me to phone by the way, and was present during the tel convs