Too nervous to be intimate with gf?

DANiEL.

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Please help me out!

- I am a 21 year old, and my girlfriend is 19 years old. My work drags me out of town a lot, so we don't really know, when i'm going to be coming home, and when i'm not going to be home.

We've been together for a little over 9 months now, and all we've done is kiss. We haven't made out, and we definitely haven't done anything sexual. I know that she wants to, but she know's that i'm nervous about it. I want to be able to kiss her and actually have sex with her, without feeling nervous around her.

I know this is probably going to sound weird, but she is the only girl I have been with, she's my first girlfriend, and I guess I don't want to screw it up. We're also both virgins.

I know I love her, and I know she loves me, and she said she'll wait as long as I need, but it's been around 4 months now, and I know that she's getting more (I don't know the correct terminology) aroused ?

It's got to the state, where we can't even kiss, without her getting agitated, and needing to leave the room, ? I'm not sure why though.

I guess, I just want to know how I can not be nervous around her, and why she is starting to act this way around me. We'd kiss, and then she'd get all tense and look like she has a fever or something?

Help please?
 
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