Your tonsils are part of a filtering system but it is no big deal if they are removed...your body has an amazing way of compensating when some things are removed. If the tonsils are not doing what they are suppose to then you find out why...like your BF did and both doctors said to have them removed. I doubt they would simply say to remove them if there was nothing wrong with them. His Tonsils have probably stopped working and no long filter anything in fact they cause more problems. He probably had a lot of infections as a kid and now his tonsils are starting to shrivel up or become calcified and or pitted. So now he needs them removed and it is no big deal...he can take some pain meds and he'll be fine. Your throat is sore and but your boyfriend is young enough and healthy enough to sail through the process. Who ever said you gain and loose weight has their systems confused...that does not happen.