To write a letter or not to...for my girlfriend?

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SharpDr08

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My girlfriend is EXTREMELY emotional and sensitive person and it makes it very difficult for me to have potential negative conversations. I feel like i have been burned out in the relationship and want to have a break; however, telling that to my girlfriend is not going to be easy. I know she will start to cry after 30 seconds of me talking, then i feel guilty, upset, and the conversation gets lost. I was wondering if writing a letter can be an option? I also thought that instead of sending her the letter, i could be sitting next to her and give it to her there. Any advice?
 
Man up pick up the phone and say we're done. There will be no break as it is long over. If she cries on well it is not the first time and wont be the last.
 
Tell her to her face she deserves it. Lots of people get upset when bad relationship news is given to them indirectly from their bf. Me myself included.
 
yeah write the letter if you think she'll react like that but if that was me I wouldn't want a letter. maybe try telling her on the phone because it makes it less awkward and if you don't want to talk to her anymore just don't answer the phone you said a break so just tell her that on the phone so you don't hurt her as bad.
 
I would definitely not give her the letter--that could cause her years of stress if she kept thinking about it, due to her questioning herself even more. The best way would probably be to tell her in person, as easy as you can. And then re-assure her afterwards. If worse comes to worse, remember that you can't be the best that you can be with someone who doesn't make you happy, no matter how much it sucks. Good luck, I know you'll need it.
 
the letter is still going to make her cry if she is emotional. you are just going to have to be sensitive and tell herthat you just need a break she will probably cry but if you are nice and respectful about it she should understand. just tell her that you really have something you need to talk to her about and that it might be an uncomfortable conversation but tell her that you really want her to listen to eveything you have to say. then jus tell her. don't feel guilty about it bud,it would be worse to live a lie at least you will be being honest with her and in the long run she will respect you for it. good luck
 
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