To Mingle or not to mingle?

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~Le Izzy~

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I have recently come out to a great number of my friends (they are all fine with it) but they've pointed out something that I do (or rather don't do).

I avoid the other gay guys at my school. The ones who are open about it, I avoid because I think they are too 'bitchy'. They just seem like the type that would talk behind your back and someone you couldn't really trust. But the Bi-guys/girls and lesbians I get along with just fine.

Now I think I have a good judge of character (I choose my friends wisely) some of my friends think that I should 'mingle' with them more, and maybe I'd have a chance of landing a boyfriend. I don't think I should but they do have a good point.

I wanna get a few more opinions before I do anything. So...what does LGBT think?
 
You have the option to associate with whoever you choose. One thing you should always keep in mind is be true to yourself and never, under any circumstance, should you lower your standards for anyone just to "fit in." If you are as good a judge of character as you say, then you will know who to trust and who not to. As my mother once told me, keep your friends close and your enemies closer as you never know which will turn on you.
 
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