To have sex or not to have sex? need help asap!?

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I've been "seeing" this kid for about a week now that i really like. I think he's really nice and funny and so cute. I love spending time with him. But the more we keep seeing each other the more our dates end up in his bed but the only thing we do is make out. tonight he un zipped my pants but i stopped him, but i let him take my shirt off instead. I know he want's to have sex and so do I but the problem is...

I"m going back to school in a week and im pretty sure the chances of me seeing him anytime soon will be slim. I really want to have sex with him but i don't want this to be some one night stand. I'm not a virgin and have had "one night standish" sort of things but i never really liked them. They were just guys i hooked up with and then never seen again.

I feel like I am denying my self something that we both want. Should I just have sex with him and not worry so much about the future or should i just hold out?
btw im 19 and have always been careful about my sexual health.
 
Let you w h o r e ass do that, then you'll become pregnant with an STD and no baby's father you'll wish you were smart enough to make that decision.
 
To be, or not to be...
hahaha anyways..

if you're doubting the sex thing even a little bit then you're not ready to do it. If you WERE ready then you'd be totally thrilled about it and would have done it the night he tried taking your pants off. Just wait a little more until you're 110% ready ;]
 
After one week? No, sorry, don't do it. That's what he wants! If you don't want him to respect you, go right ahead.
 
tell him you dont want to have anymore 1 night stands (if he knows u have) And when hes all hot and bothered and you both are wanting it say something like "cant happen were not even together" and hope that hes not just going to date you for sex. tell him how you feel.
 
Maybe you should make yourself a pro and con list to help yourself decide. You can only make this decision. If you have sex with him and feel any guilt or regret afterwords then maybe I would rethink it. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex even casually but just be comfortable with it, which it sounds like you're not. Follow your heart and don't second guess yourself.
 
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