Vicky-jane
New member
I just want to know how many women share my thoughts and how many men would be willing to have a relationship that includes affection and love...but without actually having sex.
I am a woman in her 40's who is just plain tired of it. I started having sex at 17. I was a very attractive and passionate woman up until the age of...well let's say early forties. I had so much fun dating gorgeous men (some serious and some not) and now, I could just live happily and be content with a relationship that doesn't include actual sex. I could really live without it. I am still affectionate and I am also a very loving person...just not into sex anymore. And yes, I know all about the libido and menopause..blah, blah, blah...I am just so tired of it. I would actually rather be single than to be in a relationship (if it means that I HAVE to have sex). Don't get me wrong...I have nothing against it...I think it's wonderful. I've just reached a point in my life where it's not a necessity anymore and I don't want to force myself to do it just in order to have a man.
I am a woman in her 40's who is just plain tired of it. I started having sex at 17. I was a very attractive and passionate woman up until the age of...well let's say early forties. I had so much fun dating gorgeous men (some serious and some not) and now, I could just live happily and be content with a relationship that doesn't include actual sex. I could really live without it. I am still affectionate and I am also a very loving person...just not into sex anymore. And yes, I know all about the libido and menopause..blah, blah, blah...I am just so tired of it. I would actually rather be single than to be in a relationship (if it means that I HAVE to have sex). Don't get me wrong...I have nothing against it...I think it's wonderful. I've just reached a point in my life where it's not a necessity anymore and I don't want to force myself to do it just in order to have a man.