I've been going to church for about two months. I like this girl who sings in the choir, She seems like the real deal. Only thing stopping me from approaching her is that I go by myself and she seems well connected in the church, lots of friends and stuff like that. Therefore I usually notice after service she is either continuing to sing in the choir or always talking to other people. I would prefer to get to talk to her while she is alone. But she is never alone.
Also I think it would look creepy if I waited a long amount of time after church let out for her to finish talking to people just to get her alone to approach her. Any advice anyone? Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any other setting and I would have already made my move but church seems different.
Plus, if I don't have the right approach, I fear she could tell her friends in the church about what I did and me not really knowing anybody, it might make me feel even more uncomfortable in the church afterwords. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. I haven't seen her with a another guy and I'm pretty sure we have exchanged friendly glances like making eye contact and all of that. I have said hello to her before, but that was last year when I was with my family at an Easter Sunday church service. After service there is a meet and greet in the gymnasium where there are snacks and coffee, but like I said, she is always mingling, where as I am usually by my lonesome, lol.
Also I think it would look creepy if I waited a long amount of time after church let out for her to finish talking to people just to get her alone to approach her. Any advice anyone? Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Any other setting and I would have already made my move but church seems different.
Plus, if I don't have the right approach, I fear she could tell her friends in the church about what I did and me not really knowing anybody, it might make me feel even more uncomfortable in the church afterwords. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. I haven't seen her with a another guy and I'm pretty sure we have exchanged friendly glances like making eye contact and all of that. I have said hello to her before, but that was last year when I was with my family at an Easter Sunday church service. After service there is a meet and greet in the gymnasium where there are snacks and coffee, but like I said, she is always mingling, where as I am usually by my lonesome, lol.