I'm a girl (aged 20 in college)
Thought I was gay once before but guessed that it was just a passing fad (two of my friends that same year came out)
3 years later very active in glbt organizations, but identified as straight
Then I met a girl in a writing club (sat right in front of me) and all the feelings I get for men started happening
Now she is all I think about, but I've only seen her once (she stopped going to the meetings)
I do know a lot about her though thanks to facebook and heavy snooping
I want to try and meet her in the arts building (her major which I found out through fb) since I know she will be in there so I can see her and maybe talk to her again
but
I don't even know if what I'm feeling is real or if she is even interested in girls
I think she might like me be because when we were at the first meeting she kept eye contact with me and constantly smiled and ducked her head down a couple of times. I think she might be gay/bi because of her laid back style, cute pixie hair cute, and short nails. Stereotype I know, but I'm grasping at straws!!
So, does anybody have a diagnosis?
I was also thinking about maybe adding her on fb and leaving a message saying how I knew her. I thought it could start a discussion between us.
Thought I was gay once before but guessed that it was just a passing fad (two of my friends that same year came out)
3 years later very active in glbt organizations, but identified as straight
Then I met a girl in a writing club (sat right in front of me) and all the feelings I get for men started happening
Now she is all I think about, but I've only seen her once (she stopped going to the meetings)
I do know a lot about her though thanks to facebook and heavy snooping
I want to try and meet her in the arts building (her major which I found out through fb) since I know she will be in there so I can see her and maybe talk to her again
but
I don't even know if what I'm feeling is real or if she is even interested in girls
I think she might like me be because when we were at the first meeting she kept eye contact with me and constantly smiled and ducked her head down a couple of times. I think she might be gay/bi because of her laid back style, cute pixie hair cute, and short nails. Stereotype I know, but I'm grasping at straws!!
So, does anybody have a diagnosis?
I was also thinking about maybe adding her on fb and leaving a message saying how I knew her. I thought it could start a discussion between us.