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My husband and I live with friends and they have two kids, a 4 year old and a 10 month old. Our roommates aren't the best to their kids and it's something that my husband and I have been dealing with for awhile now, but my husband is pretty two sheets to the wind and proceeded to have a 'conversation' with the 4 year old about how the parents are and the child's behavior in general, which is pretty bad. But my husband did this in such a rude fashion that it pissed both of our roommates off pretty bad. I was sitting in the kitchen and heard all of this and I felt like a jacka** for his behavior and our roommates were indirectly taking his attitude out on me which angered me and when I confronted him about it, he went on about 'oh I'm the bad guy because I was saying the truth...'. That's his explanation though whenever we have an argument when he had been drinking... I'm tired of dealing with these situations because he always tries to make it seem like he is justified to act like a jacka** when he drinks. I love him dearly (our anniversary is tomorrow)...and it isn't really often anymore that he does things like this, I just can't seem to get him to see my view on things so it defeats the purpose to sit back and bite my tongue over the situation. He could have brought these problems that he has with our roommates up to them when he was sober and had a better mind to plan out what he was saying... not just to babble on and be obnoxious about the situation and to say that everyone else is overreacting to what he said. *sigh* I hate these little struggles and road bumps in life.