...like to interject.? Again, I have no questions...I just want to rant and vent for a bit. Feel free to comment if you like, but I'm not looking for ideas or suggestions.
If you haven't read my previous questions, let me give you a quick bit of background information on me. I'm 28 and I am single. I started dating a girl in 2005 and asked her to marry me in 2007, to which she said yes. Later that year, I walked in on her with another guy. I was heartbroken and devastated. And I had not dated anyone since, until 2 weeks ago I took a girl out. We had a great time and she admitted to me later in the evening that she had "feelings" for me. Since then, she has cut communication short and as of this morning, canceled our 2nd date for this coming Saturday evening, on the grounds that she has to go to her girlfriends New Years Eve party that evening.
Are you girls really that vicious?! Seriously?! Did this girl just think to herself "Oh, he doesn't date and hasn't dated in a while, so let's see if I can get him to take me out on a date?" Just another notch in your belt, is that it? Something to brag to your friends about, right? That is seriously messed up if that's the case! I was content being single. I wasn't happy, but I was content. No surprises and no mind games!
Let me say this. I'm a good guy. Actually, I consider myself to be a really good guy. My parents raised me on the principles of honesty, chivalry, and respect. It's ingrained in me as much as my own DNA. It's not something I can change, nor would I change if I could. Ladies, if those kind of principles bother you, scare you and annoy you...do not ever say that you want to find a nice guy! We're out there, trust me. There's only a few of us left, but we are out there. If you can not appreciate or do not value any of the principles that I have just listed, then do all of us good guys out there a favor and stay away from us! Save your tricks and mind games for the punks you are used to dating. Let them treat you like you are nothing special, while they continue to hurt you over and over again. Do not take out your feelings on 1 of the good ones just because they last 4 have messed you over so bad!
Ladies, it's time to grow up and figure out what it is that you want in a guy! Do you want someone who is going to respect you, be honest with you in all aspects of life, and value your happiness? Or do you want someone who is going to screw with your head, lie to you just to get you to trust them, and make you feel worse about yourself every second for every day you are with them? If you pick the latter, I feel sorry for you. True happiness with the right guy is out there...but the question is this: Do you have what it takes to allow him to treat you the way you should be treated?
Have a pleasant afternoon. And Happy New Year.
If you haven't read my previous questions, let me give you a quick bit of background information on me. I'm 28 and I am single. I started dating a girl in 2005 and asked her to marry me in 2007, to which she said yes. Later that year, I walked in on her with another guy. I was heartbroken and devastated. And I had not dated anyone since, until 2 weeks ago I took a girl out. We had a great time and she admitted to me later in the evening that she had "feelings" for me. Since then, she has cut communication short and as of this morning, canceled our 2nd date for this coming Saturday evening, on the grounds that she has to go to her girlfriends New Years Eve party that evening.
Are you girls really that vicious?! Seriously?! Did this girl just think to herself "Oh, he doesn't date and hasn't dated in a while, so let's see if I can get him to take me out on a date?" Just another notch in your belt, is that it? Something to brag to your friends about, right? That is seriously messed up if that's the case! I was content being single. I wasn't happy, but I was content. No surprises and no mind games!
Let me say this. I'm a good guy. Actually, I consider myself to be a really good guy. My parents raised me on the principles of honesty, chivalry, and respect. It's ingrained in me as much as my own DNA. It's not something I can change, nor would I change if I could. Ladies, if those kind of principles bother you, scare you and annoy you...do not ever say that you want to find a nice guy! We're out there, trust me. There's only a few of us left, but we are out there. If you can not appreciate or do not value any of the principles that I have just listed, then do all of us good guys out there a favor and stay away from us! Save your tricks and mind games for the punks you are used to dating. Let them treat you like you are nothing special, while they continue to hurt you over and over again. Do not take out your feelings on 1 of the good ones just because they last 4 have messed you over so bad!
Ladies, it's time to grow up and figure out what it is that you want in a guy! Do you want someone who is going to respect you, be honest with you in all aspects of life, and value your happiness? Or do you want someone who is going to screw with your head, lie to you just to get you to trust them, and make you feel worse about yourself every second for every day you are with them? If you pick the latter, I feel sorry for you. True happiness with the right guy is out there...but the question is this: Do you have what it takes to allow him to treat you the way you should be treated?
Have a pleasant afternoon. And Happy New Year.