The "relationship" is over. I confronted her about being distant, and she told me that she didn't want to be Intimate with me anymore.....But wanted to remain "close" which I think thats a crock of ****.
So, I was seeing the women for 1 1/2 months. So, not very long....( she's 19 I'm 24) I could tell for the past 2-3 weeks that she wasn't as into kissing, and cuddling. But we were still sleeping with each other, and she was letting me kiss her and touch her body...So I thought she just wasn't in the mood ( she has a lot going on )
Now, She asked me to come meet her new roommate....I said sure, and left it at that...About 20 Min's later I get a text message saying " btw Mark might need to spend the night, we are going to get up early and look at an apartment...I think I may have over reacted...I said " have a goodnight.....and kinda ended the conversation. I told her I felt really uncomfortable with this situation and that we would talk about it tomorrow....So I didn't go see her...Bad mistake?
She wanted a random dude she has only known for 2 weeks to sleep in her small dorm room? It just felt weird.
And I found out that he came over when I went out of town( to look for apartments) She told me, but not that night, I found out later the next night....It seems fishy...
Plus, she had felt rather distant 2-3 weeks prior to this happening.
I asked her if he slept in the bed....She said No....What do you think? and I asked if she " cheated " she said she could never do that...What do you think?
I just need your thoughts on this matter. I want to know if you think she cheated or just slept with her new male roommate. I understand that I should " let it go" but I really need to know for my own sanity. I keep telling myself it does not matter, what's done is done....But I still need your Life Advice.
So, I was seeing the women for 1 1/2 months. So, not very long....( she's 19 I'm 24) I could tell for the past 2-3 weeks that she wasn't as into kissing, and cuddling. But we were still sleeping with each other, and she was letting me kiss her and touch her body...So I thought she just wasn't in the mood ( she has a lot going on )
Now, She asked me to come meet her new roommate....I said sure, and left it at that...About 20 Min's later I get a text message saying " btw Mark might need to spend the night, we are going to get up early and look at an apartment...I think I may have over reacted...I said " have a goodnight.....and kinda ended the conversation. I told her I felt really uncomfortable with this situation and that we would talk about it tomorrow....So I didn't go see her...Bad mistake?
She wanted a random dude she has only known for 2 weeks to sleep in her small dorm room? It just felt weird.
And I found out that he came over when I went out of town( to look for apartments) She told me, but not that night, I found out later the next night....It seems fishy...
Plus, she had felt rather distant 2-3 weeks prior to this happening.
I asked her if he slept in the bed....She said No....What do you think? and I asked if she " cheated " she said she could never do that...What do you think?
I just need your thoughts on this matter. I want to know if you think she cheated or just slept with her new male roommate. I understand that I should " let it go" but I really need to know for my own sanity. I keep telling myself it does not matter, what's done is done....But I still need your Life Advice.