...consorting with an officer; true? First I'm gay so this is why its in the gay lesbian category lol. I've been seeing a recruiter (NOT!! sexually lol lol) and doing paperwork etc in order to enlist in the US Army. I think he knows I'm gay but its "don't ask don't tell lol lol". Oh I giggle a lot so sorry abt the lol's. I've been in only three relationships so far so its not like I really just go out and be gay. Anyway, my current relationship is with a really nice guy my age who attends the nearby university. I'm in the two year college and could transfer there if I don't enlist. He's 20 and I'm 19. He's really macho and is planning on going into the Marine Corp as an Officer. He also says that he will probably eventually marry a certain girl and actually is dating one. I don't mind being his "boy on the side" lol lol. Originally, I wanted to go into Infantry and fight as one of our brave soldiers in Afghanistan. The recruiter says that my test scores are good enough for lots of other jobs and recommended either Military Intelligence or Administrative (clerical work). He didn't think I would be a "good fit" for Infantry and might experience some "problems" there, whatever that means lol lol.
Also, as a side note. As a child I was an effeminate acting child and adolescent and a big disapointment to my dad. My dad served in the Marine Corp as an enlisted man and is a construction supervisor. Having a gay effeminate son was not his first choice. I bet he would be super proud of me. So far my parents don't know but I plan to sign the enlistment papers on Monday.
If my bf joins the Marine Corp as an Officer and I join the Army as an enlisted soldier can we coordinate our Leaves so that we could be home together. Could we "get together" now and then or is that considered unlawful "fraternization" between an Officer and an Enlisted soldier?
Also, as a side note. As a child I was an effeminate acting child and adolescent and a big disapointment to my dad. My dad served in the Marine Corp as an enlisted man and is a construction supervisor. Having a gay effeminate son was not his first choice. I bet he would be super proud of me. So far my parents don't know but I plan to sign the enlistment papers on Monday.
If my bf joins the Marine Corp as an Officer and I join the Army as an enlisted soldier can we coordinate our Leaves so that we could be home together. Could we "get together" now and then or is that considered unlawful "fraternization" between an Officer and an Enlisted soldier?