My fiance and I are swingers, well, more me than him. He prefers to just come along to the parties I go to and offer to man the grill or bar tend and mostly just talks to people. He just enjoys the parties and prefers to only occasionally play. We always have a good time and people always end the party asking for our email or phone number so they can invite us to their own parties.
One couple that we've known for about two years threw a party yesterday and though this has happened before at their parties, I really noticed it at this one because my fiance was only able to be there for a little while and to pick me up later.They always invite a lot of single guys, but that's not the problem. It's that it always ends up with the women there kind of banding up and ignoring me. Even when I try talking to them I get shut out.
It's like high school all over again without clothes. I made a real effort for this party. I brought along extra liquor so people could do shots, good music (everyone always loves the music I bring), I was really friendly and tried to make sure to talk to everyone there. So what the heck? Also (and always at this couples parties) when they do talk to me, it's to question me about my fiance. They demand to know why he won't play, if he's gay, why he is ok with leaving me there and (this time) if he even loves me (which really stung because we're going through a rough patch but we're trying and the hosts know this).
It's only the women who act like this toward me. Why ???
One couple that we've known for about two years threw a party yesterday and though this has happened before at their parties, I really noticed it at this one because my fiance was only able to be there for a little while and to pick me up later.They always invite a lot of single guys, but that's not the problem. It's that it always ends up with the women there kind of banding up and ignoring me. Even when I try talking to them I get shut out.
It's like high school all over again without clothes. I made a real effort for this party. I brought along extra liquor so people could do shots, good music (everyone always loves the music I bring), I was really friendly and tried to make sure to talk to everyone there. So what the heck? Also (and always at this couples parties) when they do talk to me, it's to question me about my fiance. They demand to know why he won't play, if he's gay, why he is ok with leaving me there and (this time) if he even loves me (which really stung because we're going through a rough patch but we're trying and the hosts know this).
It's only the women who act like this toward me. Why ???