This is a debate question for both guys and girls?

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Me and My BF were having a debate on a topic "CHEATING" I would like some feedback. Any rude or degrading comments will be reported.
But here it is.....You and your ____friend are in a relationship and have a terrible argument, they leave and hook up and have sex with someone else out of anger would you consider that as a mistake? And would you forgive them or let them go?
 
Out of anger I would say they wanted to hurt you but didn't think of the consequences.
If I loved her enough I would try and let it work, if not then i would end the relationship straight away.
 
Yes. BIG mistake. Anger has nothing to do over control.
And No, i'd kick him in his nuts and Goodbye to you!
 
Well it's definitely a mistake..
I wouldn't forgive him though, because he could go and do that every time you get in a fight.
 
How is that not a mistake? Doing pretty much anything out of anger is a mistake.

As for cheating...

Women feel more hurt if her boyfriend went out and had feelings for someone else rather than sleeping with them.

Men feel more hurt if his girlfriend had sex, but no feelings attached, to someone else.


On whether or not I'd forgive her, probably not. The single act if I knew she wouldn't do it again, maybe. But I look at the psychology of the situation. It depends on WHY she did it. The problem I have is that every time she gets angry she copes by having sex with someone else? That's not a healthy mindset and so I couldn't be with her with such poor coping mechanisms.
 
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