in june.....? He says he loves me but doesn't want any strings when he leaves. but at times he treats me like his girlfriend and we're in a relationship, and other times i can barely get him to talk to me. i read somewhere that sometimes when men leave for the military they try and push the people they care about away. but i don't know if this is the case or if he's just stringing me along. his sisiter is also my best friend and she has mentioned that he seems to be pushing everyone away also. he's also told her that he really does care about me he's just scared of commitment. but idk if thats the case or he's just stringing me along.