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Kevin
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giving i mean. recently it seems she will not even make an effort unless i make an issue of it. this to me is rather dull and makes our sex life far from excellent.
I have discussed it with her and her answer is that she doesnt think she is any good at it. to me this doesnt make sense as I think she is quite fine at it. I mean i dont expect oral to climax just a little bit of enthusiasm you know a few minutes of action/attention every so often.
what can I do/say to improve this situation?
and yes i wash etc and dont have a smelly donger
oral sex is a big part of my sexual fantasies though so finding out she is VERY reluctant is a major turn off for me
I mean i am considerate in that i only bring oral into the question after 20/30 minutes of kissing and other forms of touching its not like i expect oral when she walks in the door (although guys come on who WOULDNT like this!!!) but last night even after 20/30 mins in bed she still turned her nose up to it (literally) when i navigated myself to her vicinity so to speak and it was only when i made an issue of it that she tried to pleasure me this way. and no it dont smell it was all washed clean for her
when it comes to pleasuring her i am happy to do this and coulnt myself as more eager than she in this
to me oral sex is healthy and natural and it annoys me how she doesnt like it and isnt even keen to give me pleasure. i know she likes me and sexually as she is always asking to come round. so how can i help her/us in this as no oral sex is BORING BORING BORING DULL IMO
I have discussed it with her and her answer is that she doesnt think she is any good at it. to me this doesnt make sense as I think she is quite fine at it. I mean i dont expect oral to climax just a little bit of enthusiasm you know a few minutes of action/attention every so often.
what can I do/say to improve this situation?
and yes i wash etc and dont have a smelly donger
oral sex is a big part of my sexual fantasies though so finding out she is VERY reluctant is a major turn off for me
I mean i am considerate in that i only bring oral into the question after 20/30 minutes of kissing and other forms of touching its not like i expect oral when she walks in the door (although guys come on who WOULDNT like this!!!) but last night even after 20/30 mins in bed she still turned her nose up to it (literally) when i navigated myself to her vicinity so to speak and it was only when i made an issue of it that she tried to pleasure me this way. and no it dont smell it was all washed clean for her
when it comes to pleasuring her i am happy to do this and coulnt myself as more eager than she in this
to me oral sex is healthy and natural and it annoys me how she doesnt like it and isnt even keen to give me pleasure. i know she likes me and sexually as she is always asking to come round. so how can i help her/us in this as no oral sex is BORING BORING BORING DULL IMO