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Melenni
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all i can say is make yourself atractive to him do something he likes , give him more attention.
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You can't make sure he is with you every time you have sex, sorry. It's completely normal and natural for people in relationships to fantasize about sex with others. These fantasies may or may not also include their real-life partner.
He's just being human dear, but what you can do is talk to him about how you feel, how sex has changed with you two and why...and what you both need to do to get that old spark back. Apparently something is missing or gotten a bit "routine" or he wouldn't be looking around. Bonus is (as far as you know) he's not playing with anyone else physically.
Don't let this ruin your relationship or your sex life, but DO communicate about it. Bottom line, you have no control over what goes on in his head and vice versa...there are no thought police and he may have been fantasizing throughout your entire relationship. He's with you though, so don't dwell on something you cannot control and work (with him) on making your relationship as fantastic as you can.
He's just being human dear, but what you can do is talk to him about how you feel, how sex has changed with you two and why...and what you both need to do to get that old spark back. Apparently something is missing or gotten a bit "routine" or he wouldn't be looking around. Bonus is (as far as you know) he's not playing with anyone else physically.
Don't let this ruin your relationship or your sex life, but DO communicate about it. Bottom line, you have no control over what goes on in his head and vice versa...there are no thought police and he may have been fantasizing throughout your entire relationship. He's with you though, so don't dwell on something you cannot control and work (with him) on making your relationship as fantastic as you can.
A month ago we went with my husband to this show where there was this really hot young female dancer with really long hair, round a**, and huge b**bs. As soon as she appeared on stage i caught my husband looking at her in a way that made me feel i didn't exist. My husband was also video taping this show and by looking at the tape i can tell that he was 'accidentally' zooming on the body parts mentioned above. Our sex life was perfect until that day. I just got very dissapointed at him and every time we have sex my mind is playing with me and i think that he gets more aroused by thinking at that woman than knowing he is with me. He used to ask me to look at him in the eyes during sex but now he is just closing his eyes and God knows what/who he is thinking about. Am i overeacting? How can i make sure he is 'with me' everytime we have sex?