They argue so much! Advice regarding my parents?

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My parents have been married for 25 years but always argue about the stupidest things. On top of it, they put me in the middle and almost make me choose sides. I never do, but I always am trying to be the mediator between them and they never listen to anything I have to say regarding their relationships and keep on bickering. So now I don't bother saying anything and just try to keep out of it.

I just feel really bad for my mom sometimes. She always wants to talk to me and get my input whenever her and my dad argue. My dad is such a jerk to her and I'm really busy with my life and sometimes can't always be there for her and feel really guilty. I plan on leaving home to go to grad school soon too and sometimes just feel really bad for leaving my mom because I fear she won't have anyone else.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there anyway to help this situation? I hate feeling this guilt but don't know what to do cause they just keep arguing and divorce is out of the question..
 
tell them how you feel. how much it hurts you to see them fighting.
worked for me.
 
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