there is this really mean girl but with a bad history....?

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anna

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i know this girl who is a year younger than me and who can be such a __ she is in 6th grade and she is really stuck-up and slutty. she will randomly bother me and my friends just to be cool (she is very popular)and it is so annoying. the thing is that she has a hard life. her mother was 13 when she gave birth. her mom shot herself when Serena (the girl) was 2 years old right in front of her. her dad abandoned her when her mom committed suicide. she lives with her aunt and grandma in a really small house and she has it hard. the thing is when i try to say something back to her i cant say anything because i feel guilty. its just rely confusing..
 
It's not your fault that all this happened to her. If she acts bitchy towards you and your friends, snap back by saying "Look, I know that you kind of have a hard life, but stop bitching to me and my friends because of it! Leave us alone!"
 
try not to be meant to her because she has such a bad history... i mean i feel bad for her and i dont even know her.. she sounds mean but you should try to talk to her, tell her to see a counseler. she really needs to talk to somebody about her problems at home. Even if she is mean to you, you have to be nice to her. because if she has it bad at schoool and at home, whats left for her? she might try to commit suicide like her mother.
 
I'm sorry but that does not give her the right to be a little beeyotch when she feels like it. like she just turns it on and off like a switch. Nooo. she might act this way because she has problems at home like u said. on the other hand, this girl might be tryna use the fact that her mom committed suicide and had her at thirteen and her father abandoned her as an excuse for her unacceptable behavior. You can feel sorry for her up to some point. To some extent, THEN u draw the line. There's plenty of people who r in that girl's same situation or even worse, and they don't act out as bad as she does. its just IGNORANCE cuz she doesnt know better and wants attention cuz she might not get it at home and feels bad about her past. If she wasnt in this situation would u feel sorry for her then?? yeaaa.

if you DO end up sayin somethin to the girl....dont take it too far or too personal.Dont be like..." Well, thats why ur moms dead!" orrr "thats why ur dad left you cuz he doesnt love you!!!"... mess like that. Dont say that cuz thats definitly crossed the line lol.
 
try saying this but ALONE with her "I dont want to tell you how to live your life but if you are acting like this just because of how your life has been thats not a really good thing to do " you should try to become her friend she is just telling you mean stuff because of her hurt help- her tell her that you will always be there and she can always tell you watever!
 
She's had it rough, but that's no reason for her to be mean. But you shouldn't get down to her level. Just ignore her the best you can. Be as nice and civil as possible. When she grows up, she won't be such a jerk. As long as she doesn't get physical, don't let her get under your skin.
 
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