The whole story about my g/f!!!?

[Markas]

ok i have been posting questions on here for sometime now about what i should do. so i think it is fair to give a full explenation of what is happening... we met 5 years ago, i decided to be with her because she wasnt like the other girls i dated she didnt seem like the chaeting type. so we moved in together and we both had good jobs, so about 2 months later we bought a truck it was in her name because i owed alot on my car, things went well until i got laid off of my job so there went 2400 a month taken away. one of my old freinds needed help and it was a girl at the time this girl has been my freind forever, my gf didnt like her, so she got jealous really quick and i didnt like it because i knew there wasnt anything for this girl, so after i hung out with my freind one time she decided to call her old guy freind who liked her before we got together and go hang with him, and then she called up my buddy and got him to come over to my house while i was gone then they went to dinner and talked bad about me and getting to know one another, so i came back later that night and told her i was sorry and i understood how she felt and i would handle it so she wouldnt get jealous anymore about 3 months went on and my buddy came up and told me everything that happened with them and what hurt the most was she lied to my face 9 times about it... it took 2 months to get her to confess and what she said to him hurt she said "whatever happens dont tell markas" (which is me). so i forgave her because i felt like she was the victim. so anyways her hours get cut and im still out of work so her truck get reposessed and now her family hates me for it and she says i brought her down and i could of helped her pay for it. mind you i was paying for my car with no job still. and things got better because we moved away so we ended up having to kids and after the kids, she hasnt been the same, she has always been lazy and doesnt clean or do laundry let alone has dropped out of school 2 times just for not going. im blammed for that 2. also she would always cry wolf, so whenever she would go out to the bars until 430am and i would call to see if she was ok her drunk freinds i could here in the background "get off the phone, their his kids 2".. then it brings us up to date. i took time off from work to go to school and raise our kids i graduated and did the whole mr. mom thing. well now she has me where she wants me no job at home all the time and she gets to sleep in unitl noon and go to work then come home around 930pm. (she gets off at 8) then goes to bed. she was not a very good mother when our kids were young i would wake up and the babys would be soken wet with diapers in the bed and old bottles leaking milk on the floor, or she would change them in bed and throw the diapers out in the hallway for me to pick up once i stepped on them, she has never bought me any kind of gift for and holiday or occasion, i remember one time she had a 4,000 dollar tax refund and we went out to get stuff..so me being nice i only got a $22.00 bottle of cologne from walmart and we got to the checkout line and she payed for her stuff and made me pay for my cologne...(that hurt). also im always they guy is the problem for things but when something needs done like talking to a creditor for her i have to do it or setting up a appointment i have to do it because she doesnt know how. another thing is when she cleans the house her stuff is picked up and mine is left on the floor like my kid was ripping my diploma right in front of her and her excuse was you should of hidden it. and when im sick she still goes to the bars and im at home with the kids. anytime we argue she tells me to leave and doesnt want to hear my opinions on things, (im sorry i cant keep one topic going just to much going through my head...) also when i have to be in school she will get home 10 minutes before class and i have a 30 minutes drive, but if im late from looking for a job in the morning i catch holy hell, she has to leave 40 minutes for work and it takes her 10 minutes to get to work from home. the last and final thing that gets me angry is...her brother was convictied of attemted rape of his 7 year old daughter, he lies to family because he doesnt want to admit it, he failed all the test and the paper even said his and the victims story were the same...but to her she says he did it in his sleep and didnt know it. so he goes away and wants pictures of our daughters and i said no, well i will put it this way anytime i bring up her brother she tells me to go to hell and im a dickhead. i also found out that she wanted to take my daughters to a maximum prison to see him where he can hug them. so i told her it is the same thing as me going down the road and giving a pedophile a picture of our kids and letting him have it..she told me i was ignorant and there is nothing i can do.