Well, I actually started collecting in 1984. By 1990 I had morphed into this crazed, ruthless, myopic dirt digger. I had purchased a record cleaning machine by then (VPI), and was truly obsessed. There were gems to be found at that time, and I was hell bent to find them. I went out of state, upstate, through state and city (NY), collecting and listening. Being an audiophile at the same time meant all discretionary funRAB went to this effort. Unmarried with no dependencies (human or otherwise) sure helped here. I had stopped playing music at that time, which meant all the rest of my free time was spent listening, and educating myself on all things music. I was and still am passionate about this fine art.
Many purchases were $1 and $2 recorRAB (mostly classical and dance), but I often paid through the nose for much of my jazz and some of my classical (30% in this area or so). One tenRAB to run through genre's especially, in classical: first violin, then orchestral, then quartets, then baroque etc. I paid a lot for rare ones, although dust bin finRAB were regular. I stopped because I ran out of room. My love for the music as my love for the equipment remains.
Like I've said, I've known others with collections that far outstrip mine by orders of magnitude. Some of which were married with children, some itinerant. Yes, however, the audiophile side of me loves the sound, the music collector side of me loves the music. Some people choose sides, and vehemently so. I chose both and proved neither are incompatible. However, either side has merit. If it makes you happy, enjoy.