I'm actually not really sure if their first [sexual] time will be included in the movie or not. I've been thinking about it. I do think it would make for a nice moment...but I guess it depends on if they wanted to fixate on that or not. Here's hoping it's WAY more romantic, in the sense that it actually is, lol!
I get what you mean by not liking too much fluff. I can't stand that either. Hence why I actually can't stand The Notebook. Well, there's actually quite a few reasons there [and I think you're already aware of most of them, so I won't go into them again], but yeah...this movie better NOT be anything like The Notebook, in those regards. I'm serious. I'll be so upset if it is.
And yeah, I think they've definitley had to tame some things down/cut certain things to get the PG-13 rating. Otherwise, it would've definitely been 'R.