The Getting Laid Thread #79: Read First Post Before Posting

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Deej! :back_hug: Sorry to hear about the ex, but happy to hear there's new flesh lol :P

I've been dating someone for over a year now. We have a strong relationship, but the sex can get routine sometimes. I'm very much attracted to her, but I'm usually pretty tired during the week and on the weekends we're almost always on the go.
 
That happened to me and then 2 weeks later he got a new girlfriend. :blank: Boys are *******.

I have a new beaux though. :D Not going to rush into anything because I wanna make sure he's going to be around for a while. :nod: But, Lord help me if I don't get impulses to just jump in the sack with him. :sigh: Sex...oh how I've missed you.
 
Having a friendship after ending a relationship can be painful alone without the sex.

Throw in sex and you have a recipe for heartbreak. Be careful, hun.
 
Yes I want more :( i've deep feelings for him and not only a strong friendship... I don't think he thinks that, coz he knows what I was going through before him.. and he's too nice unlike my last realtionship...
 
To me casual and steady can't go together. I think complete detachment is not easy to achieve.
 
Completely agree. I understand some people firmly believe in casual sex, but I haven't seen anyone have a steady "casual" partner and not had it get messy.

Everyone has feelings... we're only human.
 
Sex really is very complicated for most people. We want to think that it can just be casual and fun but it's just too personal for it to truly be that simple.
 
Oh, that is tough :hug: He may think it's just for sex, but you are wanting more, right?
 
I need to know what he really wants.. Coz i'll not be his doll friends with benefits never work I did it before him and was a mess during 4 months :no:
 
That could be extremely complicated.

I kept up "relations" with an ex for a year and got seriously, seriously hurt.

Then I had a casual thing with a guy, totally fell for him, and got seriously, seriously hurt.

Yeah, sex complicates everything... I don't think enough young people understand that. I sure didn't.
 
:look: my bf anf I broke up about 2 months ago now... we had sex this weekend :look: I don't know how I feel about it... I'm still in love with him tho.
 
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