I moved in with a woman 20 years ago, and after four years I broke it off and moved on. For the next four years I would visit and we would have sex ("booty call", I suppose). Then I stopped visiting and discontinued all contact for 1 year. Then I began calling occasionally, and visited her without sex for 3 years. Then 7 years ago, I moved back in with her as a "roommate". For 3 years we had sex, and then 4 years ago I stopped all physical contact. I have been restraining all impulses to spontaneously touch or hug her. This was in preparation for disconnecting and moving on, and yet this no-touch relationship has been our reality since then. Does anyone else live in a "no-touch" relationship? I'd like some feedback, and will modify and resubmit this question in accord with the feedback I receive. Thank you.
The ending of physical intimacy?
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