The culture of women making booty calls, is this the norm?

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I was talking to a girl at work today and she told me that she and a lot of her friends will often call or text a guy to see if they will come round for sex or will go home with a boy they may know a bit for casual sex. Now I know that this happens and that people have one night stands but what surprised me is that the girls / women doing it enjoyed it and had no negative feelings about it. I myself have had a couple of one night stands when I was younger and each time I was left feeling terrible. So empty and alone and sad, I think that it just felt wrong to make love to a person and then not see them again or just be friends. I learned quickly that I don't enjoy sex at all unless I love and trust the person I am with and so sex outwith a relationship is a no-no to me.

I am not judging people who do this I'm just surpried at the amount of women who seem quite at ease with one night stands. My friend said that man and relationships are too much hassle and it's best just to be with your girlfriends and use men for a bit of mutual fun.

I have been in a relationship for 6 years now so all this dosn't apply to me but is this attitude / practice really so common? Do any other women do this and not feel pain after the event?
 
Good for you! A lot of these women do this because they think it is fashionable.
Do what you want to do and don't worry about what others do.
The men will just think they are tarts and slappers and run them down behind their backs anyway. You will find a man who actually wants you for you, they won't!
 
I agree with you. Sex isn't a good idea when you are not in relationship. It causes problems and most of the time girls regret it when they are older that they were so easy.
I think nothing comes good out of it.
 
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