The classic porn and relationships debate?

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I looked over the other questions before I asked this and of course there are mixed review. Here's the deal. I told my boyfriend that it really bothered me that he looked at porn and I would prefer he stop. He said he would and he did...mostly. It's the mostly part that bothers me. It is now two years later (and all that implies) and I find out that he still looks at porn, though not nearly as much. I packed his bags and sent him on a guilt trip. I was glad that he attempted to stop, but dissapointed that he failed. I understand guys "need" to jerk off, but it makes me really GRRRRRR at the thought that he's looking at naked chicks. Should I have been so hard on him? At the end of our very depressing discussion I told him reluctantly "watch whatever the hell you want, but I don't wanna know about it." Should I have let him have his way or had more of a backbone?
"Packed his bags and sent him on a guilt trip" is a metaphor. We don't live together.
 
,you need to get over yourself if he was smart the he'd pack up & move on. Its just Porn guys are visually base we need visual stimulation were women are emotionally base. you just need to get over it & stop trying to munipulate him hope he wakes up & see's you for what you are.
 
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