That particularly annoying chat about sex.?

dani

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Why do parents say,
SEX WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. YOU WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN. WAIT TILL YOU ARE 16.

I don't see how it'll change my life. I see it as something natural and something that just sort of flows... (as long as you're safe!!)
Never be the same again. Well what? Each day we go through changes. I don't think it is that much of an impact? Of course, I'll never be a virgin again, but isn't it better to lose it to somebody who I trust and love, rather than get into a drunken mistake or forced to do it?
Wait till I'm 16... I don't want to.
I don't want to have sex cuz ''everyone else is doing it''
or cuz i'm being forced into it. or any of those reasons, If I am going to do it, I'll do it for me.
I understand that the law is there really only to stop people being forced into it. (read that somewhere, in the avert site i think) eg. to stop a 14 year old being forced..

and wtf, hypotehtically, if my boyfriend is 16 and i'm 15, and we both consent. Howw is it still rape?

I just want an actual answer to those questions.
No, ''Save sex till marrige''
or any of your morally christiany thingys. (no offence)

I just wanna know why people say these things! :)

Thanks guys! Keep it relevant ;) x
So far, the answers are great.
But just to be clear, i'm not nessisarily gunna jump into sex right now :) just wanted to see what the world was on about haha.
thanks so far everyone, keep it coming! :)
oh! and i'm not 14!
:p
norr is my boyfriend 16...
 
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