Teenage Girls and Bitchyness

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yao89

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Today, I got into an argument with a group of girls about music. Pretty much, I stated my opinion and they disagreed. We ended up getting into a huge argument, which ended up with me walking off in frustration with a couple of my band mates and girlfriend.

The group of girls and their mate Bryce wandered off and sat in the classroom for the remainder of lunch, which of course, became a huge bitch fest.

Now, I know that girls can't help but bitch about people, no matter how good of mates they are. For instance, one of the girls is my girlfriends twin sister, so I know she doesn't do it intentionally. She is just a teenage girl, which is a synonym for bitchy cow.

Anywho, what frustrated me was that the "leader of the bitchfest", Claire, decided to get my girlfriend involved and started talking me down. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 months, so trust is high enough for her to stick by my side.

The worse thing is that Claire believes that talking about the bad points of someones personality without them being around is not bitching. Seriously wtf?

Anywho, at the end of lunch, Claire came up to me and told me to stop being so angry and quit my childish bitching. In frustration, I returned with a barrel full of curse words, and I quote.



Claire has a habit of being bitchy 24/7, and even though we used to be close friends, I am not sure whether I can trust her whatsoever anymore.

I don't know whether to apologize and get over it, or just fuck her off as a friend all together.

Oh wiseful WTFers, help thy n00b.
 
LOL? I was a teen once and used to bitch but not like THAT. It was most bitching about stupid teachers and parents.



Let's see, you used to be friends. How close? Because well even when we were teens my friends would never talk about my bad points in front of others, or at least they would come to me first.

Then if your gf is smart she'll understand that's just them bitching, you should talk to her and answer all of her questions. So that she can be at ease and try not to listen to them.

About your friend Claire, really she does not seem to be that friend anymore, again try to talk to her, tell her that it's not right or friendly to "bitch" or talk about other people on their backs. Tel her you don't like it. If she understands then she is a friend, if on the other case she starts to bitch EVEN MORE, then just forget about her.

You could apologize if she hears you out, at least tell her what is bothering you!
 
Non-bitchy male teenage boy reporting here. (Although, I guess being in the late teens has some influence on that part, who knows.)
 
Arguing with a "stupid" person is fun and all, but if you seriously didn't give a fuck about what she was saying then you failed.

Also, all I heard was..

"music....bitchy cow, Claire, bitch fest, Claire, girlfriend, Claire, stupid fucking cunt...., " oh and, "...childish bitching."

So, friendship and trust really have nothing to do with this argument...just leave the roids alone as they will fuck with your ability to not be a bitch.
 
I do NOT miss high school. Just ignore all the crap. If they want to be dramatic, let them. Fighting fire with fire just makes the fire bigger.
 
the only person here that should matter to you is yourself and your girlfriend. Tell her that it hurt you that Claire came up to you and said those things to you.

Ask her if there was somethign that you had done to her (your girlfriend) that would encourage Claire to approach you like that. If there is somethign you've done, you would rather her discuss it with you first so if you are upsetting her in some way, you both can work it out. The personal stuff bewteen you two does not need to be discussed among girls that are just looking for food. Food meaning, shit to bitch about and spread rumors about just to get their kicks.

It's happened to me. I was the brunt of bitchyness since I didn't normally fit in with the popular girls. Apparently, I was older than they were (by a couple of months or so), and was expected to act differently. Things they were interested in was not something I cared for. Anyhoo, being that I was often the brunt of such bitchy cow food, I would ignore it.

You at least have the opportunity to discuss this with someone that can make a difference. The things your girlfriend tells that group, will come back to you in an unpleasant way and you just wish that the relationship between her and you would be kept between her and you and your mutual friends. Those bunch of girls and are not mutual friends. Claire has some issues. It could be jealousy or envy, or it could just be who she is and she can't stop becasue rumors and dirt are fun to play in.
 
It's quite obvious to me that Clair has not had a big enough schlong dropped in her pooper and she thought you might fill the void in her life. I'm just shocked your girlfriend didn't pick up on this and kick her ass. Next time you see Clair, just remind her that the last girl named Clair that mouthed off the way she did got reamed by the Stoner from the breakfast club.

...and she wasn't really prepared to go that far to get her rich daddy's attention.
 
You're dating a bitchy cow? Sorry to hear that. You should dump her and get a skinny girlfriend.



Good ol' Max... butt sex fixes everything in his world.
 
Actually, it's not. talking like that behind someone elses back is known as shit-talking. If I were your other half, I would've dragged her to where the lockers were and threw her head into them!



HAHAHAHAHA!! Fucking repp'd! (Although, I have to spread some more around before I can rep you again)
 
Kara, my girlfriend, is okay about it all. And actually, Claire is known for being the "anal sex" girl. Either way, I am just glad that it didn't get completely out of hand and Kara took her side over mine.

I called Claire and talked to her, yet she denied bitching or as some of you call it, shit-talking about me, so I just hung up. I will see what happens at school on monday.
 
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