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I am 17, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 6 months (he is my first boyfriend) and i love him... we have not had sex and i dont plan on it too soon, but we have a pretty physical relationship
one of my best guy friends who i have always had no problem talking to about other things, for example we share books and stuff and our conversations are usually pretty casual because he is easy to talk to, sometimes asks me how far we have gone and details, i usually dont say much bc i only talk to my closest girl friends about that usually (though I never go into details because I feel uncomfortable giving details)...
he has a girlfriend too, for about a month now, who liked him for months before he asked her out and we all told him to give her a chance because she is pretty and nice but goes to a different school, but a few of my girlfriends have told me that they think he likes me as more than a friend, which i dont believe because sometimes we get on each others nerves and he is a pretty good looking guy, but i am not attracted to him at all and because i am in love with my amazing boyfriend (who doesnt like him) and i dont think he thinks of me that way
i also know that my boyfriend does not brag about our sex life to other guys (because he is amazing) which might make my friend curious
so ... I think his intentions are pretty harmless, because we are friends and talk about almost anything else… but is it a bad idea to talk about this stuff with him, like is it unfair to my boyfriend, or can i talk to him like i would my friends that are girls?
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one of my best guy friends who i have always had no problem talking to about other things, for example we share books and stuff and our conversations are usually pretty casual because he is easy to talk to, sometimes asks me how far we have gone and details, i usually dont say much bc i only talk to my closest girl friends about that usually (though I never go into details because I feel uncomfortable giving details)...
he has a girlfriend too, for about a month now, who liked him for months before he asked her out and we all told him to give her a chance because she is pretty and nice but goes to a different school, but a few of my girlfriends have told me that they think he likes me as more than a friend, which i dont believe because sometimes we get on each others nerves and he is a pretty good looking guy, but i am not attracted to him at all and because i am in love with my amazing boyfriend (who doesnt like him) and i dont think he thinks of me that way
i also know that my boyfriend does not brag about our sex life to other guys (because he is amazing) which might make my friend curious
so ... I think his intentions are pretty harmless, because we are friends and talk about almost anything else… but is it a bad idea to talk about this stuff with him, like is it unfair to my boyfriend, or can i talk to him like i would my friends that are girls?
10pts most helpful answer!