talking to guy friends about my sex life? GUYS HELP PLEASE! 10 pts!?

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 6 months (he is my first boyfriend) and i love him... we have not had sex and i dont plan on it too soon, but we have a pretty physical relationship

one of my best guy friends who i have always had no problem talking to about other things, sometimes asks me how far we have gone and details, i usually dont say much bc i only talk to my closest girl friends about that usually...
he has a girlfriend too, for about a month now, who liked him for months before he asked her out and we all told him to give her a chance because she is pretty and nice but goes to a different school, but a few of my girlfriends have told me that they think he likes me as more than a friend, which i dont believe because sometimes we get on each others nerves and he is a pretty good looking guy, but i am not attracted to him at all and because i am in love with my amazing boyfriend (who doesnt him) and i dont think he thinks of me that way

i also know that my boyfriend does not brag about our sex life to other guys (because he is amazing) which might make my friend curious

so ... is it a bad idea to talk about this stuff with him or can i talk to him like i would my friends that are girls?

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i am 17 if that makes any difference
(who doesnt like him)*
 
You shouldn't really be telling ANYONE about your sex life, especially not people who actually ASK YOU for details. If you must tell someone, tell a close girlfriend - no one else.
 
Well, i have friends (women) who talk to me about sex, but im older than 21. And most of them do it just cause they know im not going to have sex with them. And to be honest, alot of them want to just brag. Not about they are good in bed, just that they can get any guy they want, when they want.
But i dont ask for any details. If he starts asking for details you need to set him straight or say something like "are you serious, im not giving all my secrets in the bedroom". its nice to have a guy friend to talk to about sex cause they arent going to steal you partner. Id be more affraid if you were talking to a girl about your sex life. I couldnt tell you how many friends i seen sleep with other girls boyfriends cause they were bragging on how their guys was great. Too many! Id say if you feel hes a friend and he doesnt like you like that.

Maybe hes just a perv and hes young. All men or pervs. The older ones know when its the time and place for that. Tell him "you arent interested in talking like that and get a sex life of you own buddy"

And the fact that your boyfriend doesnt brag about sex has nothing to do with why this guy is questioning you to death. Hes just a perv, put him in his place and just watch him as a friend.
 
idk i think that if your that physical with him than you should keep it to yourself. your friend is probably just looking to get horny from thinking about you doing that stuff, i would know. Plus I don't know if your boyfriend would be cool with that, you might think he's the perfect guy but everyone's got a jealous side and if he finds out about you telling other guys about the shit you do with him he might get a little jealous, or something else, im not sure, i dont know him.
P.S.
you've got your first boyfriend at 17?
 
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