Okay, so about a year ago when I got religious I broke up with my boyfriend. Since then I didn't think about him even once, and I was really happy with my life. However, recently, I've been seeing him flirt with a lot of girls, and for some reason it's bugging me now-a year later. I mean I knew he was seeing girls after we broke up, but it never bothered me. But now I'm constantly thinking about him, and find myself contemplating about 'getting together' again, and miss the good times we had.
Then I have to remind myself that it's haraam, and I shouldn't be having such thoughts. So I stop thinking about him, temporarily. But the thoughts come back. At this point, I am still on my journey to be a better Muslim, and I don't want to stray from this path, but his thoughts are REALLY distracting me from everything.
Any advice?
Then I have to remind myself that it's haraam, and I shouldn't be having such thoughts. So I stop thinking about him, temporarily. But the thoughts come back. At this point, I am still on my journey to be a better Muslim, and I don't want to stray from this path, but his thoughts are REALLY distracting me from everything.
Any advice?