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Pidds

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I hope this doesn't sound Emo-ish. Lately, I don't quite know when it started, I have had this weird feeling. Now being a teenager would most likely explain most "odd" feelings I might get, but this one in particular is strange. It's this distracting churning in my gutt, with this odd depression I feel at the most in-convenant of times, I feel oddly light, sometimes at night I will just start crying for no particular reason, and I don't even know why I am sad. I suddenly don't feel like talking to any of my friends, and any of them could tell you that I can usually talk your ear off.:happysad: The only time I ever feel well is when I'm talking to one particular person that I respect and admire, but she is moving away this summer so that won't help me for long. I can't concentrate in class and am bearly getting my work turned in. I feel like it's eating away at me, and I don't even know what it is! If anything it is very annoying, and I feel un-motivated, to do my usuall activies. If anyone had insite to this issue I could sure use some advice.
 
Perhaps you have a case of depression. It's odd, because occasionally I'll go through the same thing, and listening to certain types of music doesn't seem to help. But anyways, don't immediately assume it's just a teenager thing, ask your doctor.
 
maybe you really like this person. the fact that she's moving away may be giving you feelings of depression and heartbreak. You sound liek you might be feeling sad so you might not feel like talking while you feel that way. Give yourself some time and you might get back in the groove of things. Especially after you have come to terms with your friend moving away. Maybe you feel that your time with her is unfinished, or that somethign hasnt' been cleared up. Now is a good time to clear up anythign that is on your mind with or about her. Talk to her. Spend some time with her and try to figure out what feelings you have that could be making you feel so confused.
 
thanks guy's I was thinking the same thing, I will really miss her she is a good friend, and allways fun to be around, I will probably get to spend more time around her, because we are both doing swimming, just something to think about...:)
 
As the other have said, it's probably a case of depression.

Now, here is what I would like to add to this. Please, for your sake, get a handle on this as soon as possible. That depression can turn into anxiety attacks plus depression and you don't want that. Trust me. I've been dealing with it for the past 6 years or so now.

I know my situation is a bit different, but everybody deals with shit in a different way, so I thought I would throw that out there. Not to worry you, but just to advise what could happen.
 
I was thinking anxiety attacks myself, from what you've described. CL's right though. I wouldn't let this go too long without talking to your doctor.

Hope you feel better soon.
 
It doesn't sound like depression to me. I have someone really close to me who has been through it so I know a bit about it. Just feeling sad about things doesn't make it depression.

What you are going through I would say has alot to do with the looming fact that she's leaving. Enjoy the time you have with her now and try not to let the thoughts keep you down.
 
Well man I got to thinking and I have figured that (like others have said) you are depressed and what not but I also kinda think your in love man, and you know you might not see her again and its all racing through your mind. Losing some one when your not ready will do all kinds of things, trust me. That feeling in your stomache feels kinda like you have a superball bouncing around inside your stomache after you just ate. As for the depression its one of them things where you just start to think of something that reminds you of her but about the time you do you start to cry and you dont notice that. At least thats what happened to me. All I can tell you is... well cry thats the only way to get rid of all this. Forget about that BS that guy cant cry it is really help full after you lose someone you love. Just try some time, that if im right and you do like her tell her that you do as hard as it may be. That helps the best.
 
I kind of know what your going through. Im a teenager too and lately ive been feeling really sad for no apparent reason. Talking to a close friend who can keep my problems confidential makes me feel alot better. You should try that.
 
It'll take you some time to get over it. When my girl left me, it took me a year and a half to get over it. A year and a half! Main thing was, we didn't talk about it at all afterward.

And don't blame yourself, and don't blame her for you 2 becoming friends. You never know, you might run into her again someday, you know?
 
Well thats good to know were second placers out here. Lol J/K man at least were ranked. Well you know us man you got a prob. just add a post you have all us to help you with it. I almost say were better than a therapist they charge you and its just one person here its free, theres alot of us and we all kick ass they suck there boaring. Well man good luck with her like I said make sure you tell her how you feel before she splits it will really help you out.
 
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